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October 19, 2008

We've lost the ability to debate

I had a good conversation with my brother tonight over a pipe on the topic of true debate. We agreed that we’ve lost the ability, I fear, to argue in this country. The worst example is the political discourse in this election season. We’ve reduced talking about key principles like socialism, foreign policy, environmentalism to bumper stickers and facebook status updates. We vilify the candidates and his/her supporters and dismiss them with a flippant and cruel remark.

My brother, Dan, brought up Ben Franklin. Now here was an amazing debater. He had a policy of not disagreeing with anyone and, yet, he was somehow extremely adept at convincing people. He drove his friends crazy because sometimes he would even argue and convince someone of a point that he didn’t even agree with. Franklin established a club called Junto who’s aim was to debate questions of morals, politics, ethics, and other issues that would better the collective members. Eventually, Franklin banned any affirmation or disagreement with a point made.

My point is not that I need to be better at convincing people, but that everyone should be better at discourse. People jump to angry and foolish remarks when they don’t have a deeper grasp of the issues they’re talking about. We should not be expected to economists, scientists, theologians, and diplomats all at the same time, but we should humbly recognize where our knowledge falls short.

Debate and discourse takes practice and most of us don’t have a forum to practice. But all of us have circles of influence where we can have real conversations about issues. If you want to be better at discourse, I suggest the following:

  • learn some humility. Consider the fact that you might not be correct. Consider that even if you are convinced that you are right, you need to learn about the opposing argument and why someone might have come to that conclusion.
  • drop the labels
  • don’t use hyperbole. It’s okay to show the consequences of the opposing view, but be careful of taking it to the extreme.
  • learn before you speak. Subscribe to at least one publication on a subject that you’d like to be able to talk about. I subscribe to The Atlantic Monthly. Despite the fact that I am right-leaning and it is left-leaning, it is one of the few places where you can still find investigative reporting. I also listen to a wonderful podcast called EconTalk that brings an economic conversation to relevant topics.

  • practice. Try to find someone or a group of people with whom you can have intelligent conversation. This should be a group that can listen and be listened to without passing judgment or getting upset.
  • Do you agree with me? I’d love to see comments on this post.

    July 20, 2008

    What I Believe

    I took a long hiatus from blogging. I thought I would come back with a bang and do a series on “What I Believe” with my thoughts on everything from the creation of the universe, to globalization, to why the iPhone is like nails on a chalkboard (or teeth on carpet).

    Some of you may that the blog moved to “the” greasyrag.com. That’s because I let the domain lapse and the new owner (who’s doing nothing with the domain) won’t respond to my requests to get it back.

    You may or may not enjoy a particular topic, but I encourage you to keep checking back because I’ll be switching up the topic.

    April 29, 2008

    4 Words

    Should have played Budaj…

    I’m sorry if you’re expensive goalie isn’t doing well but you have to recognize when your goalie is struggling. I have absolutely no idea what coach Q was thinking on this one.

    I’ve always had this fear about Quenneville: He wins a lot of hockey games and goes to the playoffs a lot, but can’t take a team all the way (see Blues, St. Louis).

    December 16, 2007

    Are there any pioneers left?

    I Never Shall Forget

    Wherever I go I shall remember
    The sweeping glory of Palomar
    With her forested slopes of pines and fir;
    The sun-basked valley of Pauma Creek,
    And the tailored rows of orchards sleek
    In their flossy, dark-hued greens;
    The slanting meadows where neat holsteins
    Seek the shade of the live oak trees;
    The freshening coolness of the breeze
    Seaborne. I never shall forget
    The adobe house on the wooded hill,
    Nor the candle that waits on the windowsill.
    I shall fancy its light like a low star gleam
    Calling me back to my fond heart’s dream.
    Over the sea and through the air,
    As straight as an arrow, as sure as a prayer,
    Wherever I roam—I shall come back home.
    Ione W. Lyall

    My great grandmother wrote this poem about the house that she and my great grandfather built. They put down roots in a sparsely populated area north-east of San Diego called “Pauma Valley”. They built an orange orchard there and built their own house out of adobe. By “built their own house” I mean that they got out the tractor and started digging. Then they formed the bricks out of adobe and placed them one-by-one. The only part they contracted out was the cabinets, which were made and installed by a friend.

    I wonder if the days of pioneering are over? To do the same thing nowadays, the land would have to be purchased (the same land today is certainly worth millions), permits would have to be applied for, inspectors would be brought in, building codes would have to be followed, and most likely during the middle of all this, you’d find out you couldn’t build because the squirrel dens you’d be unearthing would be protected by federal law.

    Certainly there are still a world of opportunities for all in America still but it seems like we’re generally forced into the same path: work for someone else, draw your paycheck, and buy a tract home. Is there still room for pioneers in America?

    June 7, 2007

    Apologies...

    To the faithful few who have kept checking from time to time to see if I will open up my keyboard to share thoughts with the world. I was really working hard at a project at work in hopes that I would get a promotion. I got the promotion today! I am excited to get the chance to lead a team of PHP and ActionScript developers. Next stop, world domination, but along the way, I promise to do a better job of posting.

    April 10, 2007

    The Best Things in Life

    I sat down and watched my daughter splashing in the bathtub wondering if there could be anything better? Her favorite game in the tub is to pour water on herself with a cup and then make the sound of the water with her mouth — then she looks up at me and starts laughing hysterically. She can do this for well over 20 mins. before getting bored of it.

    Every Monday my coworkers ask me how my weekend was and what I did. I reply that I spent the weekend with my family. I’m sure it sounds boring to the single person who spends every weekend alternating between Keystone and Breckenridge but I wouldn’t trade it for all the fresh powder in the world. Those moments are simply the moments in life.

    April 4, 2007

    Week recap

    Megan took a trip to visit her brother which was exactly timed with my week of hell at work. I always hated those co-workers who would bring up how they work late EVERY time you talk to them. But, come on, how often do I get to gloat about working until 3:00am — and every night of the week at that! So I milk it.

    Of course, nothing much has been accomplished by this display of loyalty to my employer other than realizing that everyone else that I work with are slackers. In fact, everyone else in the entire world seems like a slacker to me this week. I’m also making a new friend with the one other guy who worked as hard as me this week. Making friends is kinda like dating: You have to go slowly or the whole thing will end too quickly. First you talk a bit and after a while you go out for coffee or something safe. If you take your time up front, before you know it, you’ll be helping your new friend move.

    I got way more mileage than I expected out of the moustache pic. It surfaced at work when I took some pics of the jets flying over opening day for the Rockies and sent the link out to work. A few people looked at the rest of my flickr pics (how is it that no one took the username ‘senator’ before me?) and the moustache photo was discovered. Today it ended up on the fridge at work and it got play all day long. I think I’m going to take it down so it doesn’t get old.

    No news on the dwell magazine scandal. I really wish that they would pursue the matter further, but at $250 an hour, it’s not likely.

    I don’t care how cool my shirt looks, I just have to put my sweat-shirt on because it’s getting really cold in this coffee shop. I don’t know why I dress-up to go to a coffee shop. Everyone looks so hip, that I want to fit in. Will I ever interact with these people? Not really, but for some reason I still want to feel cool and the too-big-for-me-company-fleece is just not cool.

    Speaking of cool, I’ll end with my favorite Calvin & Hobbs quote:

    Hobbs: “What are you doing?” Calvin : “Being cool.” H : “You look more like you’re bored.” C : “The world bores you when you’re cool.”

    March 26, 2007

    Comments Working

    Comments are finally working on the Greasy Rag, so feel free to comment on anything you read!

    February 3, 2007

    Remember Me?

    That’s the question just below the login form on my blog software. There’s a little checkbox next to it where I can check, “yes, I remember you. I remember all the late nights typing away all my inner-most thoughts and weird quirks…”. It turns out that my login form was not asking if I remember it, but rather if I want it to remember me (at least for two weeks anyways). Well, sure, who doesn’t want to be remembered?

    Lately I feel like the only things that will remember me is all the code I’ve been writing. I go to work and sit down and start writing code. Then I come home, greet my wife, kiss my daughter, eat some dinner, and then write some more code until I can’t keep my eyes open anymore. I do admire those people that seem to be able to keep at something for years and years without a thought to where it is getting them. For me, however, I am always thinking, “what is this doing for me?” There’s a simple answer: at work, it’s getting me a paycheck (hence food and heat), after work there is an equally simple answer: it’s the chance to work hard now and hopefully have a paycheck that starts to come in a little easier in the future. But still, there is nothing satisfying about writing code.

    December 28, 2006

    On slowing down...

    My work was nice enough to let me have the week off between Christmas and New Year’s Day. I didn’t realize how much I needed to slow down. I had the week lined up with plans but nature had it’s own plans. We had the worst blizzard since the 2003 and I ended up spending my time indoors relaxing or sledding. After the storm cleared, I decided to jump headlong into a house project but, again, it seems that nature has its own plans. It started snowing heavily today and I’m told that this snowstorm could be as bad as the last. I spent the entire day relaxing and listening to Ryan Adams and Vetiver (who has a new album out). I found that it really took me a long time to decompress and completely relax. I’m not sure that I’m even fully relaxed after an entire day. I’m not sure if it’s some sort of internal Egyptian slave master or the pressure to succeed in American society, but I am constantly worried that I’m not accomplishing enough. I never feel settled and so I run from one thing to the next. The ironic thing is that when I think of what I would do if I only had enough money to live, I think I would just like to sit and relax.

    October 24, 2006

    Bogus Studies

    Scientists are getting increasingly sloppy with their studies. I’ve written before that I think there is nothing scientific about most studies that make their way into the headlines. The latest study suggesting men who use their cell phones more than 4 hours a day will have less fertility is no exception. The researches who performed the study have concluded that the decreased fertility is a result of electromagnetic radiation. Really? I can think of a couple more likely explanations without even putting much thought into it:

    1) Increased cell phone users are probably very busy people. Therefore they might be really stressed out. Stress is believed to affect fertility.

    2) Could there be a link between obesity and cell phone usage? I’m not sure, but obesity is linked to decreased fertility.

    The article itself exposes the myriad of other factors that could have contributed to the results aside from electromagnetic radiation:

    Sperm counts among British men have fallen by 29 per cent over the past decade, a drop which has also been blamed on increasing obesity, smoking, stress, pollution and ‘gender-bending’ chemicals which disrupt the hormone system.

    Researchers get funding when they produce attention-getting results. This would not be a story if the researchers had concluded something like “There could be many reasons to explain the results and we’re going to do further tests to determine the most likely cause.” Instead they jump to the most outlandish conclusion and it gets published.

    It’s important to be skeptical of studies especially ones that are based on statistical analysis of behavior.

    October 3, 2006

    True Happiness

    I sat in the car this morning driving to work with my wife and daughter. We had a worship cd playing and Megan and I were singing along. We both looked back and realized that our 10 month old daughter was singing, too. It’s one of those moments where you realize that money does not buy happiness. I feel sorry for so many in my generation who have chosen to have money over having a family.

    September 21, 2006

    On Changing Culture

    I was born in Guatemala. My parents were missionaries there for 10 years working with a tribe in the high mountains. Since then, I have been active in some sort of missionary work from trips to Mexico to build houses to teaching in Universities in Uzbekistan. One criticism that I have heard over and over is that missionaries destroy native cultures. It came up again in planning my next trip to Nepal to hold a women’s conference in the Christian church.

    Let me start my defense by saying that there are many missionaries who have disregarded local culture and have wrapped American culture into the gospel that they are spreading. One example is the western value of wearing clothes. Many trible peoples wore little to no clothing and did not feel ashamed about it. When missionaries first came to these tribes, they forced people to wear western clothing which had to be imported in as used clothing from American churches. Nothing in the Bible says that people have to wear clothing. I’m not trying to say that it’s okay, in our culture, to go walking around naked, but when a culture places no value on clothing, there is no reason for anyone to force them to wear clothing.

    It is wrong, however, to conclude from this example that every culture is inherently good in every way. One of the greatest aspects of the teachings of Jesus is that he went beyond his own culture and taught us how to live as humans. His primary teaching, “Love your neighbor as yourself”, may go against the values of many cultures, but that does not make the teaching any less valid or valuable.

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    September 6, 2006

    Geotagging is the New Album Art

    I stayed up all night geotagging all of my pictures on Flickr. Why? Just so that the world can know exactly where my picture was taken. Why? Just cause it’s cool!

    August 30, 2006

    Memento

    I went skateboarding with my brother on Monday night and had one of the stranger experiences in my life. He took a sudden fall (that park is way too slick) and hit his head hard enough to hear the helmet crack against the concrete. If you think you’re cool not wearing a helmet, you’ll be even cooler with a feeding tube. Luckily he seemed fine if a little dazed. We sat and talked while he shook it off until he got quiet for a little while. Then he said, “I’m trying really hard but I can’t remember what I did at work today.” I didn’t think this was a big deal because work is so boring, it’s not really worth remembering. Then he asked, “what day is today?” Despite the fact that there were a number of things he couldn’t remember, I didn’t start to panic until he couldn’t remember his two-day camping trip he had just taken… “Really? In a tent?” He responded when I told him about his camping trip.

    I decided it was time for a hospital visit and that he probably had a concussion. I have no experience with that type of injury, but I know it happens when you get hit in the head. As we walked to the car he asked, “Did I fall? My elbows hurt.”

    “Yeah, you fell skateboarding.”

    “Really? I don’t remember that. I don’t remember what I had for dinner. What did I have for dinner?”

    “Spaghetti”

    “Yeah, I can kinda taste that still. I’m not crazy! I don’t remember what happened at work today!”

    “You’re fine, but you have a slight concussion and we’re going to the hospital”

    “Did I fall? My elbows hurt.”

    “Yeah, you fell skateboarding.”

    “Really? I don’t remember that. I don’t remember what I had for dinner. What did I have for dinner?”…

    This exact script repeated all the way to the hospital (and for the next few hours). The strange thing is that it didn’t matter if I responded or not, the script went on with the same wording and even the same voice inflections. His brain was skipping like a scratched CD.

    My brother is fine and apparently these are normal symptoms with a concussion. It was a terrifying and strange experience for me, though, to have gone through that. I got to thinking about how fragile life is and how even though you do your best to protect yourself, you can still get hurt.

    Then I thought about repeating the same things over and over again. Isn’t that basically what we do everyday? Aren’t we always repeating the same fears, behaviors, thoughts, and words like a broken record? I’ve heard it said that foolishness is repeating the same thing over and over but expecting a different outcome each time. How can we break the cycle of our own humanity?

    August 2, 2006

    CitySip

    If you live in Denver, you're not cool until you've read this:

    City Sip

    Then once you've read it, make sure to keep reading it so you can keep your coolness...

    In all seriousness, this guy is a great writer and knows his way around the nightlife of Denver. So if you need to know the hot places to hit, a new drink recipe, or just want to read some good writing, check out city sip

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    July 28, 2006

    No. 2 Rules!

    I've gone back to using pencils. "Why?" You ask. Well, for one, pencils are erasable. It's a feature that American's have abondoned, but it's a pretty cool one. It's how people corrected their mistakes before computers. Of course, there's always white-out but that's messy (unless you have one of those white-out tape dispensors, but that's kinda dorky).

    But that's not really the reason. I use pencils because I can chew on them all day long without getting ink all over my mouth. It's a perfect way to get rid of stress or aggression. It's a nice way to sharpen my teeth too! [clack!] [clack!]


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    July 27, 2006

    Well, as long as his mom vouches, he can keep the crown

    This story struck me as really funny:
    FOX Sports - Tour De France - Landis' mother defends him over allegations

    Of course his mom is going to defend him!

    July 26, 2006

    When I was your age...

    we had flip books, and that’s the way we liked it!

    I just got a new camcorder because Cora is about to start crawling and you just have to get it on video, right? Well, maybe the three-chip Panasonic PV-GS300 was a bit overkill, but it sure is fun. I have been a fan of Windows Movie Maker 2 for about a year now. I’ve used both iMovie and WMM2 and I can tell you that Microsoft has a far superior product while Apple has far superior marketing. WMM2 exports to formats that can be burned to DVD (using a separate piece of software like Nero). It also has a cool auto movie maker feature which works suprisingly well by matching movie clips to the beat of the music. I have a cute movie of Cora here as an example. The clip requires Flash 8 so if you don’t have it, click here to get it.

    June 25, 2006

    A brilliant solution

    If we’re going to just ignore the problem of uncouth children running wild on the streets of Denver, then why don’t we at least curb them into activities that don’t bother everyone else? I suppose the reason Denver doesn’t build a juvevnile detention center that can hold all of the kids that need to be there is the cost. I have an idea that is probably a lot cheaper than building the proper city facilities: Why not just hand out xbox 360’s to every kid that the police let go. It goes something like this:

    “Do you know you just cost $200 worth of damage to that car?”

    “Yeah. So what? I’m Blood, I’m West Side!”

    “Um… Right… Anyway I can’t really do anything to you because Juvi won’t take you so… here: It’s an xbox 360. You’ll be addicted in about 5 minutes and you won’t stop playing until your parents make you stop — which is probably never ‘cause your parents obviously don’t care if you’re out at 2:00am smashing in people’s car windows…”

    Problem solved.

    June 13, 2006

    DIY

    Some punks smashed in the driver’s side window of my car. That’s why I drive a beater instead of an ego-car. I called a few window repair places in town and they all told me the same thing: $200 and I have to special-order the part…. Um… no.

    I called the local Toyota salvage yard and it turned out to be in walking distance from my office. I had the window swapped out in 20 minutes. I thought $70 was a bit steep for a used Toyota Landcruiser window, but it’s a lot better than $200 and driving around for two days with no window. It pays to have a little DIY in you.

    June 9, 2006

    Corporate America

    Now that the layoff of my dept. at my last company is behind me, I’m able to think about it again. For the first two weeks, I had one goal - emotionally - concerning my last company: get over it. To sit around and cry and whine and moan about the layoffs or how they were conducted would hurt no one but me. I was lucky: I got a job right away. My co-workers are still working hard at their job searches. Now that that experience is behind me, one thing is very clear: I don’t want to go through that again.

    The company owes a worker nothing except what they’ve promised to give in the job offer. The problem that we’ve run into in this country is that workers feel obligated to give much more than what is stated in the offer letter. Workers give extra time, extra energy, extra stress and sacrifice their families to please the company hoping that they will get ahead. Of course, the corporation is more than happy with this arrangement. The company can only take what you give them and this is why I’m not for unions or “workers rights”. We all get stuck when we spend every dime that we earn so that we become enslaved to that next paycheck.

    There’s going to be a shift in this country in expectations about work. People are expecting to enjoy their work and be treated like adults. People expect a comfortable work environment or even to work at home. Basically this means that companies will get smaller. There’s too much waste and inefficiency in the bohemith companies.

    If you’re tired of your job and you resent your boss remember this: they can only take from you what you give them.

    June 6, 2006

    Cubedwell

    I mentioned my other blog, cube dwell, before, but I haven’t been putting much effort into the site until a month ago so all of my readers got bored with it. If you’re stuck in an office all day or your looking for little things to make your life more productive, fun, or interesting, check out cube dwell

    June 2, 2006

    Nepal Gallery

    If anyone in Denver is looking for something to do tonight, you can check out a gallery that I’m hosting of Nepal Photographs. The gallery will be held from 7-9pm at the Temple Events Center on 16th & Pearl in Denver.

    May 22, 2006

    Back to Work

    I’m really happy to tell everyone that I’m back to work. I feel really blessed to have started a new job just over a week after getting dismissed from my last job. I was pretty upset that the company laid me without realizing that their new ad agency doesn’t do any web design work. But now I’m so grateful because they forced me to do something that I should have done a long time ago which is to get a new job with a better working environment. With each minute at work today, I could feel stress leaving my body.

    Thanks to all who prayed for me and gave me encouragement.

    May 16, 2006

    Isn't it strange...

    that there is a family that has been living in a motor home (recreational vehicle) in front of my house for several weeks now? Each week they’re driving a brand new escalade. Tonight I watched them playing in their new pearl, sparkly escalade and filiming themselves on the latest top-of-the-line video camera. Escalade+Motor Home+Brand New Video Camera+Towing Expensive Ski-Doos = ?

    Job Security

    Last Tuesday I walked by my friend’s cube who was talking to a woman in H.R. He looked at me and said, “I’m being dismissed.” Before I could even begin to think about what my office life would be like without him, there was the COO in my cubicle.

    “Aaaah Dangit!” was pretty much the last thing I said as an employee of the company. When you’re in honors English class, they tell you to study hard and get good grades so you can go to a good university and then study harder so you can get a good job so you can give all you can to the company so they can dismiss you because they made a mistake in getting into a contract with a company that does exactly what they’ve hired you to do (only at 12 times the cost).

    “You’re job has been eliminated” is how it was put to me. Well that’s comforting. It’s not me who’s been eliminated, but my job. I just wished it could have been put to me in a more memorable way like on survivor: “You’re tribe has spoken” or do it the Trump way: “You’re Fired!” [cobra attack!]. The funny thing is that I had just downloaded the “goodbye” song from American Idol (Daniel Powter) the week previously thinking that I might need to play it if they let me go suddenly. Unfortunately I was locked out of my computer by the time I came back from my elimination.

    Well that’s life. So if anyone’s out there with a great job in mind and they need a hard-working guy who knows his web stuff and is willing to give all he can so he can get “dismissed” on a moments notice? I’m your man.

    March 26, 2006

    The Sims

    I walked into church a little early today and the band was jamming away to a really nice, jazzy tune. I started thinking to myself, “where do I know this tune from?” Then it hit me: It was Neighborhood 1 from The Original Sims! Gone are the days when I could waste away my days playing video games but if I had those days back, I would be playing The Sims.

    March 21, 2006

    Blog-Hype

    You can tell when you’re no longer hip when you start studying the latest technology pheonmena instead of being part of it. That’s why I’ve always laughed at the articles and attemps to define blogs. It’s along this vein that business week wrote a hype article about being careful of what you publish about yourself on the internet because employers might google you and find out something you don’t want them to find out. To those who’ve never realized this, I say “maybe you should sign up for common sense school instead of reading business week”. The first thing I did upon finding out who my new boss was going to be was google her name (impressive resume). When I had annoying neighbors, I found out who the landlord was and googled him (currently under indictment for real estate fraud). When I wondered about an old friend from high school, I googled his name (plays in the Philadelphia philharmonic). When I wondered what people think of me, I googled my own name (just released from prison in Pueblo county). The point is that you will find out information about people on the internet, but it could be inaccurate (I’ve never been in jail, by the way). Interestingly enough, Business Week didn’t even treat the people or sites referenced in their own article fairly. Check out this post from a site referenced in the article. Check out this post from a guy mentioned in the post. Media that overhypes and overstates the obvious - that’s the story.

    March 8, 2006

    Starbucks Underhanded Tactics

    I’ve recently discovered that Starbucks is becoming even more aggresive with lease negotiations than they have in the past. It has been typical for them to negotiate lease terms with a strip mall to not allow other retailers in the same strip mall to sell espresso. Now they’ve decided that they can get away with more. I haven’t seen it reported, but I know it to be true that they are now beginning to restrict other retailers in the same development from selling “gourmet” coffee. This means that another retailer can’t even sell drip coffee to its customers unless, presumably, it’s Folgers or Hills. Bros.

    Since pretty much everyone is attempting to sell “gourmet” coffee, including McDonald’s, are there any food retailers that wouldn’t be restricted in these new leases? Not likely. There would still be a McDonald’s, but they wouldn’t sell coffee. It sounds to me like a P.R. problem if their customers knew that rather than competing on quality and convenience, they were engaging in tactics that tried to limit competition and free market. Their customers are the one’s who lose out when they engage in these tactics. You know who else loses? The growers. Though Starbucks tries to put on an air of compassion for the growers by offering “fair trade” coffees, what would happen if they were the only ones purchasing coffee from these growers? I’m sure they would negotiate cheaper prices if they were the major purchaser of coffee around the world.

    I’ve decided to call for a boycott of Starbucks until they decide to compete fairly instead of trying to throw their weight around as a giant corporation. There are still plenty of other options out there (which includes roasting your own beans!).

    For reading on the building of the Starbucks dinasty and strategy, read this article from the Washington Post.

    March 6, 2006

    Coffee Roasting

    I’ve been way into Make lately. Their blog featured a hack to turn a popcorn maker into a coffee roaster. I made myself one and I’m never looking back. Freshly roasted coffee is so much better than store-bought beans that it’s like a new drink. On top of that, there’s such a satisfaction from making something from scratch. The only thing better would be to grow the coffee myself… I’m looking for a tree that will grow in high altitude and can handle freezing temps. I’ll post some pics soon of the roasting process.

    March 1, 2006

    They put up a parking lot

    Every time I go back to visit San Diego, I am saddened by what the place has become. The overcrowding was inevitable. It’s a beautiful place, after all, why wouldn’t everyone want to move there? Now it’s nothing but traffic jams and cookie-cutter houses.

    With everyone that I had to visit, there wasn’t much time for me to get out into the ocean so I left at the crack o’ dawn on Monday. I even hit traffic on the way to the beach at 5:30 in the morning! Getting out in the ocean, though, I washed all of my stress and worry away. I wasn’t much of a surfer that day because I’d lost the muscles I need to paddle for the waves. As I sat on my board waiting for the set to come, I saw two fins swim past me. They were two large porpuses reminding me of the San Diego I loved. A few minutes later, a herd (gaggle?) of Sea Lions moved by just beyond the break barking so loud you couldn’t hear anything else. It was such a wonderful moment, I would almost be lured back by it if I hadn’t experienced bumper to bumper traffic the whole way back to where I was staying.

    Things are always changing and it’s foolish to try to stop it. I do miss the slow-paced San Diego I grew up in, though.

    February 18, 2006

    Beaten by one of my favorites

    One of my favorite players is Peter Budaj. He’s the 2nd goalie for the Colorado Avalanche. I really like his attitude and his playing style. I also like the fact that after every win he pumps to the sky and looks upwards as if to say, “Thanks for the help, God.” The Slovaks just beat Team USA in olympic hockey. The keeper? Budaj. As soon as the clock went down and I saw the familiar heavenward hand pump. Would the outcome have been different if I had prayed for Team USA before the game? Probably not. After all, I wouldn’t have been on television when I would have given my props to J.C.

    February 4, 2006

    Faith and Politics

    If you’ve been a Greasy Rag reader for any length of time, you’ll know that I’m pretty conflicted about how to express my feelings about Faith and about Politics on the same blog. One of my biggest fears with this blog is that I may portray the stereotype that Christian = Republican. I am a Republican and Christian, so how do I get around portraying that they are one and the same? I feel a little better about it if I can direct people over to Emerging City where you’ll find Christians who lean more to the left of the political spectrum who eloquently communicate their positions. Even if you’re not looking for a liberal voice, check it out, because you’ll find people that are from or associate with the marginalized in society and, from that standpoint, is a more authentic voice than I have when it comes to Christ’s command to take care of the poor. That being said, I’d like to give a quick summary of how I have settled on the balance between Faith and Politics:

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    January 31, 2006

    I'm back!

    Sorry about the no posting and the Apache error that you received the last couple of days. As you may have guessed, I had some server troubles. I am trying to move to a new hosting provider that gives me over 20 times the size for half the price but it wasn’t working out so well so I switched back. I’m going to be trying again in the next few days, but I promise to make it a smoother transition this time.

    January 20, 2006

    WOMMA

    I went to the womma conference the past two days and it really got me fired up for the next generation of media and advertising. I’m excited to share many of the concepts that I learned with my co-workers and to see if I can implement some of the ideas I got from the conference. WOMMA stands for Word of Mouth Marketing Association and WOM is a big buzzword in the marketing industry right now. I figured that I’d see what it’s all about instead of just throwing the word around like I have any clue what I’m talking about. My favorite speakers were Scott (the nametag guy) and Jakie Huba. They both were incredibly dynamic and really got my brainwaves flowing. I’ll probably write more about some of the concepts in days to come.

    January 2, 2006

    Cube Dwell

    I’ve started yet another blog that highlights life hacks, technology tips, web industry insights, and other ways to make the corporate life interesting. It’s called Cube Dwell. Check it out.

    December 27, 2005

    Back to Work Blues

    Between the birth of my new baby girl and the Christmas break, I got really used to being at home with my family. It’s going to be difficult to go back to work now.

    One thing I love about the U.S. is the American work ethic. We are the most productive society in the world (without forcing children and slaves into labor). It’s not hard to see that the U.S. system of work hard to get ahead works much better than the European work or no work, you still get paid and plenty of time off system. I do wish, however, that I was in a position where I could take a sabatical or something. It’s hard to have any inspiration or positive feeling about life when you’re sitting in a cubicle. The truth is, if I took a sabatical I wouldn’t come back.

    I am excited to start the new year, however. When you work in a retail-oriented company, you really stress out about the holidays. If you don’t make your numbers then the whole year is shot and you get no bonus. Well I doubt we made our numbers, but at least now we can stop worrying about it and move on. At least the Av’s won tonight.

    December 20, 2005

    Flickr Fun

    After spending 3 days trying to get a decent photo gallery running on this site, I abandoned my quest and turned to Flickr. First of all, I’ve been using flickr for some time and perhaps by using that as my sole gallery, more people will join. Secondly, I really don’t want to have to upload photos twice. So if you’re interested in seeing some photos, check it out.

    December 4, 2005

    A New Baby

    I am a proud father of a beautiful baby girl. I have promised not to turn this into a daddy blog so I created a separate one here.

    November 28, 2005

    Little Larson

    The vacation weekend was great for me to catch up on house projects that I've been wanting to finish before the baby comes. I finally put the shoe molding and the crown molding up in the nursery and put up some extra security lights around the house. I also got the daddy blog up and running so those of you that are interested in poopy diapers can get the play-by-play. If you're interested it's at Little Larson.

    No, we're not revealing the name yet 'cause I don't want to hear "Oh I used to work with a woman named that and she was a real wench!". The name was already on a recent episode of Law & Order and the character was a psycho woman. It's a cool name, though, and you'll find out as soon as she does.

    November 18, 2005

    Integrity in Business

    I deal quite a bit in real estate so I've had to deal with many mortgage brokers. I finally found one that I trust and I've been using her for years, now and recommending her to everyone I know. She's starting her own mortgage company and I had a conversation about it with her today. I know that the business will be successful because she always puts her clients first and her profits second. Most mortgage brokers promise you the world and deliver disappointing results. The industry is so competitive that they feel compelled to do anything to get your business. Once you get deep enough you realize that they can't deliver on their promises, but it's too late.

    I've read a lot of material lately advocating ethics and integrity in business. It seems that the corporate scandals at the beginning of the millenium has caused people to realize (or remember) that true success in business requires integrity. There's so much temptation to take short-term profits over long-term good that it requires a strong conviction to keep one's integrity in business. The stock market only encourages this behavior by focusing solely on quarterly earnings and forcing Executives to make the short-term profits the end-all goal for their companies.

    It's time for Americans to stand up for integrity in business. This is just as well for employees as it is for corporate executives and small business owners. It may hurt in the short-term, but it's imperitive to act with integrity.

    By the way, if you're looking for a great, trustworthy mortgage broker - drop Bridget a line at Capiche Funding:

    Inept Competition

    One of the main factors to the success of Microsoft has been the lack of competition. For years, Apple has been largely inept and allowed Microsoft a monopoly in the personal PC market. In fact, Microsoft was funding Apple to keep from facing Anti-trust regulation.

    As a recent article in Fast Company points out: the roles are reversing. First, Firefox began to take a chunk out of Internet Explorer's usage by focusing on security, useability, and extensability. As this article points out, a million users switched from Mac to PC this year for the same reasons. I was forced to switch because of my work environment, but I have to say that it's a little depressing to have to go back to my PC when I get home. If it weren't for the absence of affordable money management software and limited functionality for Macromedia products, I would probably switch at home too. Well, that and the cost - Apple products are priced at premium prices.

    I'd like to know what Microsoft has been doing the last three years. How hard is it to make Internet Explorer tab-based? Why not release an update to Windows XP that adds cool features like OS X has? If they think that they'll survive on their business strength, think again: OS X's server is way more secure than Microsoft's.

    This is all coming from a PC guy who's tired of computing with 90's era technology.

    November 14, 2005

    A doctor's visit in the modern world

    I'm not a huge fan of any European systems but one thing I got used to while I was studying in France was their system of pharmacys. I could feel a case of "mal a la gorge" comming on and drop into a pharmacy to get medication on my way to the Rodin museum. I'm sure the pharmacist couldn't cure diabetes but she's plenty capable of prescribing me the right medication for my symptoms.

    Everyone knows that the U.S. has the highest quality health care in the world. If there's so many smart doctors then why are we wasting their time with runny noses and other minor ailments? I've gotten into a bit of a routine with my current doctor that's a small taste of how convenient our medical system could be. I feel some sypmtoms, I look them up on the internet to learn the medical terms for my sypmtoms and then I call my doc.

    Today, I called my doc around 11:00am and he got back to me just after 5:00pm (presumably after he'd seen his last patient for the day). He asked what was going on to which I recounted my symptoms. He asked a few specific questions and I gave him specific answers (medical terms and all). He said, "well, I can phone in a nasal decongestant and a course of antibiotics to your neighborhood pharmacy. I still have your pharmacy on file, if you want to use the one you used last time." That was that. I'm hoping that the medications will cure me, but if not, I'll probably go in to see the doctor next time for a more thorough visit.

    Why can't the medical system move to a more streamlined operation? It saves them money and it saves us time. I have a feeling that laws and regulations and doctors' fear of lawsuits are the reason that more doctors don't encourage quicker methods of diagnosis. I trust my doctor and I know that if he needed to see me, he would ask me to come in. I'd sign a waiver if he felt I needed to, I just don't want to drive all the way accross town, sit in an office for 30 minutes, meet with the doctor for 5 minutes, and drive back to the office for what I could have accomplished in 5 minutes over the phone.

    November 7, 2005

    Zathura: A Review

    I checked out the screening of Zathura on Saturday with Megan. I've never been too excited by movies that are oriented at kids but I'm about to have one of my own so I'm a little more in the mindset these days. A complaint that I generally have about this genre of movies (which includes movies like Jumanji and Jurassic Park) is that the sets look like you're on a ride at Universal Studios. You know how it is, falling rocks look like they are made of styrofoam and monsters are made of rubber.

    I was pleasantly suprised at the imaginative sets in Zathura. Of course it takes place in a house so that part is easy: big, wooden, creepy basement. What I liked was the "space" element which, instead of looking like an iPod commercial, was a 50's version of space: lots of tarnished steel and rivets. It was the kind of space that I'd like to be floating in if my house were suddenly uprooted and tossed into outer space.

    Another element I appreciated was the casting. I expected Jeff Goldblum as the father and Kurt Russel as the wacky but jaded astronaut. Instead I saw some fresh faces that did a decent job of acting. Josh Hutcherson (Walter) really had me imagining a number of bratty little boys I knew growing up. Jonah Bobo (Danny) was cute and though he overacted a bit (what 8 year old doesn't overact?) I thought he evoked a lot of empathy for his situation.

    Though the theme isn't overtly forced upon the viewer, the movie deals with emotions kids deal with when their parents get divorced. Through their experiences together, the two kids learn to trust each other and rely on one another.

    One thing that bothers me about these type of kids movies is that the kids have to cuss. It's not like kids don't hear this language at school, but why make a movie that builds kids up and throw in some behavior that most parents don't want to encourage. I felt like it was really out of place and forced - especially since there is only one cuss word in the movie. I suppose the director felt like he had to get a PG rating to make the movie sell better - but it's unfortunate that it has to be done like that.

    All in all, I would definitely recommend you go see this movie, especially if you have kids between the ages of 6 and 16. There are some good talking points for discussion with your kids afterwards. Sony pictures also puts out a Teacher's Study Guide which is a collaboration of science (contributed by NASA) and language arts.

    The Early Factor

    "What are you doing here?"

    "umm... I work here. In fact, I've worked here for almost four yea..."

    "No, I mean at 8:00am? I saw your car in the parking lot and thought, 'woah, that can't be Pete's car?'"

    If you want to get ahead in your job, start by getting to the office before everyone else. It doesn't matter if you get there three hours before anyone else, or three minutes - just get there first. Then you can leave the office at 3:00pm and no one will raise an eyebrow.

    We pick the silliest things to measure each other by. It's too subjective to measure the quality of someone's work or the amount that they engage in the company. It's easy to see when they get in in the morning so that's what people use. "I was up until midnight formatting a report" doesn't hold a candle to the early factor.

    Today, I think I'll turn the tables. When my co-worker takes off in the early afternoon, I'll blurt out, "leaving so soon?"

    November 1, 2005

    Obesity and Eating Disorders: A cultural problem

    The past few years, the media has bombarded us with stories of American Obesity. They've been telling us that 61 percent of Americans are overweight or obese. They're reminding us that obesity can lead to a number of diseases such as heart disease, hypertension, and diabetes. While I can't outright deny the reports, I am begining to get the feeling that there is some hyperbole and hysteria in the reporting. I certainly don't deny the fact that obesity is a problem in America, but it's not helpful for anyone to inflate the degree of the problem simply to sell a news story or more diet books, diet pills, etc.

    The Center for Consumer Freedom has an article chronicalling their testimony at a Food and Drug Administration (FDA) hearing on obesity. The article argues that the statistics on obesity are seriously flawed. They point out that the original study on which the 61 percent statistic is based simply tripled their findings on the assumption that many with heart disease or hypertension must be overweight. Here's an interesting excerpt:

    We've told you before that the respected New England Journal of Medicine editorialized in 1998 that "although some claim that every year 300,000 deaths in the United States are caused by obesity, that figure is by no means well established ... [the 300,000 statistic is] "derived from weak [and] incomplete data." Likewise, the assertion that 61 percent of Americans are overweight or obese ignores the 1998 redefinition that took the counterintuitive step of judging men and women by the same standard, and that made more than 30 million Americans overweight overnight, including the very fit President of the United States.

    Regardless of the validity of the statistics, I would argue that the problem in America is not unhealthy eating, but an uphealthy obsession with weight. Our culture is filled with messages about weight that range from overt messages in magazines or television commercials to more subtle messages that come out of hollywood and other centers of culture. I watched a show on television last night that pointed out how many skinny women in Hollywood are losing even more weight. 40-year-olds such as the women on Desperate Housewives feel that they have to look younger and thinner to be attractive.

    A quick google search on eating disorder statistics reveals the following from annecollins.com:

    ...between 5 per cent and 10 per cent of girls and women (i.e. 5-10 million people) and 1 million boys and men suffer from eating disorders, including anorexia, bulimia, binge eating disorder, or other associated dietary conditions.

    These statistics don't come close to the 61% of Americans (even if the percentage is exagerated) who are overweight but they are alarming nonetheless. The point is that only 30-40% of Americans consider themselves to be at the proper weight. This means that everyone else is trying to lose weight. Very few people are trying to gain weight - even those that are skinny. Athletes are the only group concerned with gaining weight. The point is that well over half of Americans are trying to lose weight through healthy or unhealthy means.

    The obsession with weight is far-reaching in scope and is very dangerous for our society. I couldn't pretend to be an expert on the subject, but I see an important consequence of this: People's weight will continue to get worse.

    In many cases, weight-related issues are related to emotional issues. It is a destructive cycle: the more you feel overweight, the less satisfied you are with yourself; the less satisfied you are with yourself - the more you eat; the more you eat, the more weight you gain. This concept is true of any addiction. The problem with weight issues is that nearly every aspect of our culture reaffirms the original unhealthy thought patterns that leads to the addiction.

    It is important to be healthy and to control your weight. It is important, however, not to confuse skinny with healthy. If we are to become more healthy as a society, we have to lose the obsession with weight. Reality shows such as "America's Next Top Model" are reprehenisible and are making a whole generation of girls feel inadequate. I personally feel that "The Biggest Loser", a show where people compete to lose weight, only makes overweight Americans feel worse about themselves. Life should not be a weight-loss competition. It should be about getting your mind, soul, and body in balance.

    October 27, 2005

    Diary of a Procrastinator

    6:19pm - Arrive at home and tell wife how much work I have to do tonight. She's made a delicious meal of corned beef and cabbage. I wish I had Guiness and didn't have to work late into the night to finish my project.

    7:15pm - Finish dinner a little hungry, but I have to save some for lunch tomorrow. I wonder how happy my co-workers will be to smell corned beef eminating from my cube. Megan says she'll clean up and I should get to work.

    7:30pm - I sit down after lighting a candle, making some tea, rebooting the wireless music server. I check the score for the fantasy hockey league. I'm in the lead for this week.

    7:31pm - I get up to get some cookies. I sit down and get to work.

    8:42pm - A cool tune that I could jam to comes accross the wireless music server. I get up and grab my guitar. Then get back to work.

    10:03 - Dan and BJ come over to watch "Lost". It turns out to be a re-run. Stupid World Series!

    11:17pm - Megan has gone to bed and I install a new theme for my Firefox browser that makes it look just like my Mac at work. I think to myself, "it would be cool if all PC's looked like Macs."

    12:28pm - I check my blog's worth according to Technorati. Something must be wrong with Technorati's calculations. I decide to check back in a couple days to see if they've fixed it. I suddenly realize that I left the water boiling.

    12:49pm - I sit down to work. Then I decide, "wouldn't it be cool to journal my procrastination".

    1:01am - I realize that this is both a waste of time and totally uninteresting.

    All this work for nothing

    I hit up technorati tonight and I saw that they have used a recent AOL aquisition of a bunch of blogs to calculate the worth of any particular blog (in terms of linkage by other blogs). With their handy-dandy calculator, I found that this blog is worth... [drumroll please]

    NOTHING! Wow, all this hard work is certainly not paying off.

    October 26, 2005

    You Must Register!

    MustBeRegistered.pngIs there anything more ridiculous than making someone register for a free service? This kind of message is pretty much the same as saying, "GO AWAY" to all your potential customers.

    Let's stop a minute and think about the business case for providing free news content. What's the point? To get lots of people to visit your site. Why? So that you can tell advertisers that lots of people visit your site and they should advertise there. Now that the strategy is clear, what's the first thing you do to a new site visitor? Block them from viewing what they want them to see. Considering there are thousands of other articles they could be reading on the internet, what makes these sites think they won't immediately leave? Nobody likes giving personal information out to a web site that they're not even sure if they like.

    I understand why they do it. They want demographics on their readership since the web has no region or location. Is that demographic information worth the loss of a potential reader? There has to be a better way to entice people to let you know where they're from.

    Some sites at least let you read the introduction to an article before forcing you to register. This is a bit better since you have a chance to let the reader know if your site is valuable before they give you their information. The problem is that you're asking for information that you don't really care about and that the reader doesn't really want to give. If you just want demographic and frequency information, why not simply ask:

    "We hope you're enjoying this article. In order to provide free content, we need to share demographic information with our advertisers. Would you mind telling us what country and state/province you're from?
    Country (drop down) State (fill-in).
    Check this box if you want us to remember this info so we don't have to ask you again (this will set a cookie on your machine)"

    Everyone's happy right? It baffles me that news providers don't realize how many readers they're losing by making people register.

    Wilma

    I talked with my brother, Phil, this morning who just been through hurricane Wilma. He said he's pretty lucky that he didn't have too much damage. He already had a contract signed to get his roof redone, so he's already in line and locked into a price.

    When I asked what it's like right now, he jokingly referred me to the movie Mad Max. While no one's going to be sawing their own limbs off, or anything, it sounded pretty crazy to try and live without power, running water, and branches and debris everywhere. I'm just praying that power gets restored - or at least that he's able to find a gas station with power in the next two days. He's glad that he sent his family to visit friends in Texas before the hurricane hit.

    It makes me think, "how long could I live off what's in my house if I had no power or running water?" I don't have a pool so I don't know how I would flush the toilet. I do have the lake a few blocks away so I suppose I could fetch some lake water several times a day. I'm thinking I'd like to get a generator and a big plow attachment for my Land Cruiser.

    October 24, 2005

    Nous non plus

    You may have seen a post some time about the faux-French rock band, Les Sans Cullottes. It was/is a rock band with a 60's french pop sound. Only one of the band memebers is actually French but they do a pretty decent job of emulating the sound and the accent and, hey, it's pretty funny. It seems the band has had a mutiny. All of the band memebers went out on their own sans the founder, Clermont Ferrand. He was furious and took the band to court to get rights to the name. In the end, the band members decided it would be too expensive to fight so they (in French fashion) surrendered and decided to rock on with a new moniker: Nous non plus (literally: us no more).

    I first discovered the band from reading the Slate diary entry by the drummer, Jean-Luc Retard (real name, Dan Crane). Apparently this quote from the diary started the antagonism between Ferrand and Reteard:

    "12:17 a.m. Middle of set. Smell something hideous from stage left. Think, 'I wonder if Bill had time to eat a fish taco before the show.' "

    Imagine the headline: Faux-French Rock Band Splits Over "Hideous Smell" Comment. Lead Singer Sues.

    Is there any doubt America is the greatest country in the world?

    October 21, 2005

    Religion, Politics, and the GodBlogCon

    I read the headline, Bloggers Seek to Mix Faith and the Internet, for an article written by Greg Simmons on foxnews.com. It's clear from the opening two paragraphs that Hugh Hewitt's book, Blog, has influenced the article since he uses the same historical parallel that Hugh used:

    WASHINGTON — When Johann Gutenberg's printing press began churning out Bibles in the 15th century, the new technology helped usher in a new era of religion in Europe.

    Nearly 600 years later, some think that increasingly popular Web logs — the Internet's version of personal journals, pamphleteering and issue forums all wrapped in one — combined with traditional religious beliefs could once again take people on a new, uncharted course.

    What troubled me is the following report:

    In terms of the strength of the group as a political force, Christian bloggers don't just talk religion. They spend much of their time discussing current politics, including the nomination of White House counsel Harriet Miers (search) to succeed Supreme Court Justice Sandra Day O'Connor (search), abortion, intelligent design, the use of "under God" in the classroom and where the Ten Commandments should or shouldn't be placed, among other topics.

    I don't know how to walk the fine line between politics and religion. Of course, faith plays a role in our personal political stance, but I'm worried that when individual bloggers who are Christians and conservatives start to organize by holding conferences & forming alliances that we'll end up with communicating the message that Christianity = Conservatism.

    I wasn't at the convention. I wish I had the time and money to fly out to California and participate. It would have been a great chance to see my cousins and some old friends. I can't say if politics was emphasized but from the reports I have read, it was not (at least not in an official way). I wish it would have been. Blogs are and will be a wonderful tool for Christians to present treatises on spiritual issues. However, if we as bloggers don't decide early on WHICH message we want to present, we will end up presenting a collective message that you must accept the conservative message as well as the gospel in order to become a Christian. Without intending to, we will, in effect, add to the message of salvation and redemption that Jesus preached.

    If you want to see an example of what will happen, look to Colorado Springs and Dr. James Dobson. Here is a man who was doing a wonderful work trying to bring the cultural focus back to Christian values for our families. His organization faithfully presented this message through books, tapes, and the radio. Now Dr. Dobson does not make us think of the family. He makes us think of politics, Karl Rove, and President Bush. I consider it a great failure on his part to even be in the confidence of Bush's political strategist.

    The blogs are headed down this same path if we're not careful about choosing the message that we want to present. I'm not trying to say that there shouldn't be Christian bloggers who write about politics. I'm addressing the God-blogs out there with a simple challenge: choose your message. Don't do both politics and spirituality.

    Disagree? I'd love to know why. It's an important issue and it needs to be discussed.

    October 17, 2005

    Back by popular demand

    Okay, so no one liked the frilly design. I was getting a little tired of the old one but after hearing, "I like the old one!" enough times I realized that it's time to bring back the old design. I have cleaned it up and made some modifications (which are still ongoing).

    In addition to changing the design, I've upgraded to Moveable Type 3.2 which is a big improvement under the hood.

    October 13, 2005

    This is the leader in software?

    For someone who's changed the face of the pc computing world, they sure have a lame presentation. Prediction: Microsoft will steadily fall to many competitors in many categories including music players, browsers (firefox), web programming, and operating systems.

    (10+2)*5

    The last year, I've been slowly getting into the realm of GTD and life hacks. This is one of my favorites and has helped me turn around some poor work habits.

    October 5, 2005

    Haaahvahd

    A great post on Signal Vs. Noise evaluates the importance our society places on where a person went to college.

    October 3, 2005

    Aviation Blog

    My big bro started an aviation blog called three nine line. I'm excited to read more.

    Obligatory "New Design" Entry

    How do you like me now?

    September 27, 2005

    Bronco Bliss

    I sat through a day of work and an evening of pelvic stretches at birthing class thinking, "If those Broncos don't win, I'm going to personally come down there and give them a Bill Cower of my own..." I actually didn't get to watch the previous two games on account of being out of the country. I just heard all of the radio-whine about n